{"id":1178,"date":"2015-08-09T23:43:50","date_gmt":"2015-08-09T13:43:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/greole.com\/blog\/?p=1178"},"modified":"2015-08-09T23:43:50","modified_gmt":"2015-08-09T13:43:50","slug":"teenage-sexuality-as-father-and-as-author","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/2015\/08\/09\/teenage-sexuality-as-father-and-as-author\/","title":{"rendered":"Teenage sexuality &#8211; as father and as author"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today I realised that in a few years I would need a shotgun and a rocking chair. I subconsciously practiced the phrase &#8220;Son, what are your intentions with my daughter?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So what caused this train of thought?<\/p>\n<p>Well, today Rhiannon competed in a dance competition. She&#8217;s now 11, but since the age of 3 has been learning ballet, tap and contemporary dance at the local <a href=\"http:\/\/www.edta.org.au\/\">EDTA<\/a> (Education in Dance and Theatre Arts) school. I&#8217;ve seen her in lots of concerts and competitions but she was always my little girl. This said, today in one dance I glimpsed the woman that she would become &#8211; something very Betty Grable (if you are young, then look Betty up &#8211; she&#8217;s a 40s\/50s movie star). This glimpse was fleeting, but it blew me away.<\/p>\n<p>Oh shit! (pardon the swearing, but there was real panic and surprise and I needed to really convey that to you).<\/p>\n<p>At another point today real tears of happiness and pride also flowed. Her particular dance school did a piece from the Nutcracker suite and it was fantastic &#8211; visually splendid.<\/p>\n<p>Gushy father stuff aside, what has all this got to do with the title of my post?<\/p>\n<p>Well, I guess it was some moves in another dance by another troupe that made me think. I felt that some of the moves were a bit too adult for the girls. Let kids be kids. Also, let&#8217;s not sexualise our kids because we don&#8217;t want any perverts out there seeing them as tasty dishes. I kind of dwelt on all these thoughts as an anxious father does.<\/p>\n<p>My mind stepped back a few days to a car conversation with my wife. You know the types of conversations.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today I realised that in a few years I would need a shotgun and a rocking chair. I subconsciously practiced the phrase &#8220;Son, what are your intentions with my daughter?&#8221; So what caused this train of thought? Well, today Rhiannon competed in a dance competition. She&#8217;s now 11, but since the age of 3 has been learning ballet, tap and contemporary dance at the local EDTA (Education in Dance and<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1179,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wpupg_custom_link":[],"wpupg_custom_link_behaviour":[],"wpupg_custom_image":[],"wpupg_custom_image_id":[],"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[67,39,2,8],"tags":[22,4],"series":[],"class_list":["entry","author-soulthief","post-1178","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-life","category-wbfs","category-good-writing","category-shadytales","tag-tempting-in-shade","tag-writing","clearfix"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_2443.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1178","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1178"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1178\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1178"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1178"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1178"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/greole.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=1178"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}